i know this tweet is about me. No I will not "grow up" over the fact of a man TWICE my age giving me an incurable std and his only excuse being "you would have gotten it eventually anyways" that is fucking assault thank you very much
I am @maebywest. Tiff is @tiffstreatsxoxo.
To the right is a record of all digital communication between us, from our first Reddit DM to the last email from the SVU detective. Every text, voicemail and DM on any platform is included: Names have been changed and a few details redacted to avoid doxxing, but the transcript is otherwise unabridged and unedited. Hard screenshots of anything you see here are available on request.
Below are the allegations she has made about me. Each section preserves the original post first, then annotates its claims with my responses and links to relevant material in the transcript. These are allegations from one side of a dispute and have not been independently verified here.
Original post
According to one person’s account, after FetCon the other person stayed at her Pompano apartment for about a week so they could continue making content.
She says he told her in person that he had feelings for her. She says she told him she was not interested and never would be. She says they then booked a month-long October Airbnb in New York City in her name for content and collabs.
She further says that about a week after her diagnosis he told her he had not been tested for herpes in over seven years, claimed he had never had an outbreak, and suggested she may have gotten it from asymptomatic shedding.
She alleges that after her diagnosis he became obsessive, sending long messages about them being meant to be together and asking for forgiveness.
She also alleges he made a Reddit post with a “honeymoon vibes” caption of her pegging him, presented as if they were married.
She says another domme he had worked with told her he was referring to her as his partner, which she says was not true.
She says that after this she did not feel safe staying with him in New York for a month. She says he claimed he would buy her out of the Airbnb. She alleges that about 24 hours before check-in he said he was bringing his senior dog, which she says had already caused damage at her home and in a car.
She says the Airbnb was not pet-friendly and that he planned to claim the dog was a service animal. She says she told him that if the dog was coming, the reservation needed to be switched into his name so she would not be held liable. She alleges he did not buy her out until about three weeks later. She says he still has not repaid all money she claims he owes for that Airbnb.
She further alleges that beginning last month he created a website and tried to pressure or blackmail her into deleting a post and replacing it with one stating he is not a predator. She says she refused and called the police. These are allegations from one side of a dispute and have not been independently verified here.
Original post and replies
@tiffstreatsxoxo@tiffstreatsxoxo ·
Jaq Quicksilver 🖤@Jaq_official ·
I'm tired of seeing performers try to blow up careers over fucking herpes. GROW UPPPP.
Goddess Tiff (FETCON)@tiffstreatsxoxo ·
This man harassed me about being in love with me for TWO MONTHS after traumatizing me, giving me hsv1 and I made it very clear i hated him so forgive me for "trying to blow up his career" he caused lifelong damage to my mental heath and I am insuring that won't happen to anyone else
Original post and quoted post
@tiffstreatsxoxo@tiffstreatsxoxo ·
I learned that the predator I am speaking about in this post (maebywest) is living in the city that I will be staying in this summer and has still been working with tons of Dommes!
Texas Dommes be VERY careful when working with this man, I am still deeply traumatized by him to this day and if he did this to me, he may do it to you too!!
Goddess Tiff (FETCON)@tiffstreatsxoxo ·
I was REALLY trying to avoid having to make this post, to prevent backlash & more harassment from him but recent incidents have made it clear that more people need to be aware of this creator for SAFETY purposes
If you want to ensure you avoid this creator DM me privately please
Original posts
@tiffstreatsxoxo@tiffstreatsxoxo ·
The amount of people who think it’s okay not to disclose stds/stis (yes including hsv1) is INSANE...you do realize that’s sexual assault right?
I quite literally don’t care how “common it is” or that “they prob already had it” YOU ARE A SEXUAL PREDATOR
@tiffstreatsxoxo@tiffstreatsxoxo ·
I’m only bringing this back up because since I was unconsensually given herpes by a stupid man who thought it was unimportant knowledge to know and it’s like so severally traumatized me and now it’s like so impossible to trust anyone
AND I’ve recently heard from a few different people that if I don’t feel comfortable telling someone that I wanna sleep with, I don’t have to tell them (because it is something I can be ashamed about at times) but that is 100% NOT the case!!
Disclosure is so so very important when it comes to sexual health. If you have HSV1, HSV2 or any other STI/STD... don’t you DARE think about sleeping with someone before having a conversation with them first. They need to consent to the risk.
I would never want someone that I slept with to feel the shame in the trauma that I felt when I went through this. Clearly, it’s still something that I struggle with six months later but it all could’ve been avoided if the guy who I worked followed decent testing and disclosure guidelines.
Moral of the story don’t be a dick. Disclose your status.
Original post and quoted post
@tiffstreatsxoxo@tiffstreatsxoxo ·
I revoked my consent from him to sell any of our content together and he refused to delete it so I had to get the Fansly and OF involved to get them taken down and then he had the nerve to ask if he could just raise his prices back up... no bitch trust has been broken. You shouldn’t have gone behind my back in the first place
Goddess Tiff (FETCON)@tiffstreatsxoxo ·
Nothing pisses me off more than a creator agreeing to match my prices when we work together and then completely selling that shit for significantly less...
Like seriously I don’t care if you’re a man you can sell the video for what I sell it or I won’t work with you again 😒
Original post
I was REALLY trying to avoid having to make this post, to prevent backlash & more harassment from him but recent incidents have made it clear that more people need to be aware of this creator for SAFETY purposes If you want to ensure you avoid this creator DM me privately please
I contracted HSV-1 from a creator who misrepresented his testing practices and experience level. Before filming, he presented himself as experienced in the industry. After I tested positive and confronted him about not having done a full-panel test, he changed his story and claimed he was “new” to the industry and didn’t know HSV-1 testing was important despite having public content dating back to at least 2021.
Following the incident, he acted unprofessionally in several ways, including undercutting agreed-upon pricing for joint content (selling a video for $5 that we had agreed to price at $45),
sending walls of text about how we are "meant to be", telling multiple people including other creators and Airbnb hosts, that we were dating, and even making a public Reddit about us being married.
He also initially agreed to buy me out of our shared month-long Airbnb booking in New York after I chose to distance myself for health and safety reasons, but later refused to reimburse me for the loss even though he stayed at the airbnb for the month
Health disclosures, testing integrity, and honest communication are NON NEGOTIABLE.
If you want to ensure you don’t work with this individual, you can DM me privately and I’ll share identifying information confidentially.
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